Male and Female Imponderables--Post-Resurrection

POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Tuesday, June 13, 2006 12:56
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RUGBUG

Monday, June 12, 2006 7:15 PM

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Rather than brooding in my own self loathing, I did alot of living this weekend. I feel real good. May even try for a date with someone other that Ms. Incredible. My have to run into her at some point. Although, I will say HI and be the same shiny person that she helps me be. Wadda ya think BROWNCOATS? Good idea? I think so too. JUst what to wear?

Sounds AWESOME! Don't sit home waiting for her. Brooding is only attractive in TV heroes,

and even then it gets old quick.

And who knows, you could meet another Ms. Incredible (sounds impossible now, but may not always). There's more than one out there, ya know....

FLAME

Monday, June 12, 2006 7:18 PM

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Originally posted by LightMeDark:
Two out of the three girlfriends I've had (also the only people I've ever slept with) have said there is nothing attractive about a man's body whatsoever, haha...both of them did say the strength/dominance was where the attraction lay.

OH, those silly, silly girls.

I haven't read the rest of the thread, yet, but I just have to stop here and say that MEN ARE BEAUTIFUL. I like all their parts, but especially THE part... (you know the one!)... and biceps/shoulders/chests. I love the biceps/shoulders/chest combo, most especially when hairy. Jeezus, I drool every time I watch that "Jayne in the infirmary taping his gun to himself" scene...

The muscular buttocks ain't bad, neither, though more for tactile reasons than visual.

Um... I'll be in my bunk...

~ Flame ~

SERENITY on the big screen in Raleigh, NC, June 22, 2006!!
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NVGHOSTRIDER

Monday, June 12, 2006 7:22 PM

Not to be vulgar, but anyone else would fall into the friends with benefits category. We would have fun, but ultimately she would be someone to hang out with that I would have to take in a manly fashion numerous times. I must be careful. There is alot of energy I have saved for that special someone. Must aviod the manwhoring. Must avoid the manwhoring. Must avoid the manwhoring. Oh hell, just flirting with different girls this weekend was nice. Might just have to go out for whole tease night. That sounds like fun.

Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.

SERYN

Monday, June 12, 2006 7:30 PM

Do we need to get you two a room?

No, I've completely forgotten whatever it was I was going to say.

Hm, can icomplain instead?

Some pig has gone onto my myspace pace and purposefully wrecked the message that my neice so painstakingly put together on my fridge thingy. I wouldn't have minded so much if they replaced it with another message, but they just deliberatly desroyed it for no reason. I hate people sometimes. That was my neices message!

*sulks*

ok, trivial compared.

oh, thats it, I was going to say NVG - maybe she's not sure exactly where she stands with you? She's possibly a bit uncertain and sticking to the familiar? or she playing with you. (if she is she's a bitch) you of course have the conundrum of not making a fool of yourself for her, 'cause if she is then you end up in a worse position.

Turning to the bonkbuster for inspiration, why not a grand gesture - get her alone, tell her your interested in her but you wont play games, then leave her (just up and go) and let her make her mind up what she actually wants.

Be a wee bit theatrical and very alpha male about it. It might work, if it doesn't, you've kept your dignity.

And by the way, have Ifound you on myspace and added you?

oh, and can y'all read my page since I changed it around?

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Hodgins: Your robot reminds me of you. You tell it to turn it stops. You tell it to stop it turns. You ask it to take out the garbage it watches reruns of Firefly.
FozzieWash, You know what I always say: sometimes you're the windshield, sometimes you're the bug!
KermieMal, I never Know what the heck you're talking about.
FozzieWash, Hey, look! They're sending us free lumber!
http://www.myspace.com/seryndippyt

FLAME

Monday, June 12, 2006 7:38 PM

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Originally posted by DesktopHippie:
Adam's cute n' all, but his character actually puts me off him completely. I've read all the posts from the Jayne lovers. I know all about him being sweet and sensitive on the inside and braiding women's hair and all that stuff. But no. Just no. He's crude, he's obnoxious and he doesn't have a whole pile going on between the ears. He would drive me absolutely demented. If I were on Serenity I'd avoid him like the plague!

LOL. You've listed half the reasons I like him! I guess it's all comes down to what we personally want, or need. I've done the complicated/tortured/intelligent man thing, and I've figured out that I prefer down to earth and easy. Can't stand drama/self-doubt/over-analyzing/etc. Mal's tortured complexity would drive me bananas. Plus, Mal's not hairy. I likes me some hairy.

And I'm pretty crude - ok, I think I'm worse than Jayne, actually - so I'd want a guy I could be myself with. I don't need a lot of fancy romancin' - let's just get down and dirty, gorrammit!

Yeah, and Jayne's tall and good-looking, but I'd like him pretty much if he looked like Badger (who I also kinda like, come to think of it...)

I don't find Jayne at all obnoxious, either. I think he's darling. But, I realize I'm a little odd...

And I like guns.

So, Jayne it is, for me!

~ Flame ~

SERENITY on the big screen in Raleigh, NC, June 22, 2006!!
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RUGBUG

Monday, June 12, 2006 7:59 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Not to be vulgar, but anyone else would fall into the friends with benefits category.

I don't see anything wrong with that, as long as both people understand that's what is going on. Just don't miss out on anything good b/c you're hoping that something will work out that may not.

NVGHOSTRIDER

Monday, June 12, 2006 8:12 PM

Yes, the confused Ms. Incredible seems to know my intentions, but I may have to get out the hammer and chisel to make them more defined. She may not what I want, But I at least want her as a friend. I believe some theatrics may be in order. After I do let things be for a bit some misbehavin' and thuggery may ensue. Just need some runnin' partners so I can say, "Lets go be badguys" Need to find some BROWNCOATS in my town.

RUGBUG: Good suggestion. I'd just been afraid of casual relationships for a while. I hate to have unimportant things in my life clogging up the works such. I am the bastard child of a bastard. I never knew my "sperm donor". And I have been truly in love only once in my life. Thats just the beginning. I am afraid because really I have no fear. Sounds goofy, but then again so am I.

Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.

TRISTAN

Monday, June 12, 2006 8:14 PM

Hiya, Flame!
Not sure if I have seen you here before today...if you have been here, I apologize for forgetting...if you haven't, then welcome!

Thanks for the input. Generally, "those" parts are not mentioned by females when describing the attractive parts of a male...glad to see someone out there likes their aesthetic values!

Guns. Guns are good.

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FLAME

Monday, June 12, 2006 8:18 PM

Anyone here ever heard of the Ladder Theory? It goes like this:

Men (straight men) have one ladder. All women are ranked on it, according to which ones they'd most like to sleep with, all the way down to the ones they'd sleep with if they were drunk/desperate/last man on earth. Point is, men will pretty much sleep with anyone, under the right circumstances.

Women, however, have two ladders. There's the ladder which ranks the men they'd sleep with. Then the ladder for their "Friends." If you are on the wrong ladder, it is VIRTUALLY IMPOSSIBLE to "ladder jump."

I feel bad when anyone's hopes for a relationship don't work out, but I also feel bad when I see men holding a torch, or maintaining a hopeful friendship, with a woman who just isn't into them.

A wise older friend of mine once said, "In relationships, if it's not YES, it's NO." And that's it. No maybe, no eventually, no if I just stay her friend, she'll come around... If she's in a bar with some slimeball, she doesn't want you. Nothing against you, at all. I personally don't want Mal, either, but doesn't change the fact that he's a great guy.

I hope I don't sound mean, that's not my intent. I think the folks on this board are awesome.

~ Flame ~

SERENITY on the big screen in Raleigh, NC, June 22, 2006!!
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FLAME

Monday, June 12, 2006 8:22 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Tristan:
Hiya, Flame!
Not sure if I have seen you here before today...if you have been here, I apologize for forgetting...if you haven't, then welcome!

Thanks for the input. Generally, "those" parts are not mentioned by females when describing the attractive parts of a male...glad to see someone out there likes their aesthetic values!

Guns. Guns are good.

Jeezus, I could look at them all day.

The guns. And the parts. Is there a metaphor here?

~ Flame ~

SERENITY on the big screen in Raleigh, NC, June 22, 2006!!
http://www.monkeyshinesbeadery.com/serenity/shindig/

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