Male and Female Imponderables--Post-Resurrection
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Tuesday, June 13, 2006 12:56
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Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love Love
An I carried such a torch.......For the Dark Lord
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Copilot, isn't that the opening line of a Beatle's song?
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which one? I like listening to the beatles but don't make much of point to memerize stuff.
Oh flowers! For me? Yay!
An I carried such a torch.......For the Dark Lord
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Copilot,
Um..."Love, love, love" I think....let me check.
-EDIT- It's actually "All You Need Is Love"...
And yes, flowers for you! Pretty ladies need pretty flowers.
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I used to believe that all you need is love. Lived my life accordingly. But aparently you also need to eat sleep and brush your hair regularly.
Yet more things former significant other did for me. Made me eat every day. Made me sleep at least a few hours a night. The brushing of my hair everyday was an accident but it's because of him too. I'm probably only alive because he found me (on a very bad path in those days).
He's so amazing! Why didn't I see those things then? Hindsight really is 20/20! Which is funny because I really am incredably near sighted. I love him so very much!
If only? If doesn't help anything does it? I grew up and grew out of the relationship. First impressions never really go away though.
An I carried such a torch.......For the Dark Lord
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OOOOOOOOOOOK... Lots of stuff, but I'll try to stay on the main topic here.
First off...Thanks for all the kind words about me hunny! Glad you like my independent streak and my makeup. Um, so, yeah...ok. From here on in, please try not to get too curious about what I say about the male form. You know I love you.
So, what do females find attractive in males? Well, for me it always starts with the eyes. If a guy looks me in the eye while talking to me, he has my attention. I dont really have a favorite color...tend to lean toward the darker varieties; however, shocking blue usually turns my knees to Jello.
As far as the actual form of a man, i like em skinny with a little bit of muscle. If I can wrap my arms around them and they can lift me up, its all gravey. Body builder types just make me cringe. Its like hugging a brick wall. But if he's tall enough for me to put my head on his chest when we hug, yay.
And hair. OMG!!! I LOVE long hair. Tristan used to have it, and I have accepted that I may never see it again, but when it was there it was BEAUTIFUL! There's just something about twisting my fingers in long locks 
For me, thats about it. Im more attracted to a guy with a good sense of humor, and likes me for me. I am a very independent woman, I love hanging out with the guys, and if you have a problem with it, you;re not for me. (Thats why I love my husband) I have found I lean towards men with feminine qualities; long hair, graceful fingers, high cheek bones, long eyelashes. I do like to feel protected now and then. There's nothing better than being held tightly by the man you love.
All in all, I think the same question should be posted for men. What do you see in females? When I look at myself, I see a girl with too much around the middle, a "badonkadonk", boobs that aren't quite perky anymore, and that one mole on my nose that has no pigment so it look like a zit. Why am I attractive? So you see guys, women have insecurities too. Maybe thats why we need you guys..too make us feel good. 
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Everyone! It's my wife! She's finally here!
*ahem*
Sorry, I am much better now.
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Copilot.
Oh, mercy. I wish there was something I could do to make you feel better about your decision. Everyone will tell you the feelings will go away, you did the right thing, it's all for the best, get on with your life. None of those statements help at all. When you are ready, you will let go. It is good to hold onto the good memories and forget the bad.
We will be here. Remember that. Some of us may not know you IRL, but you are cared for deeply.
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You're Tristian's Significant other? Yay! You two are so very lucky to have found each other! Also you're adorable together! Your wedding picture looks amazing! I think love can make anyone attractive. Everyone has insecurities darlin dears everywhere. I think I'm freaking hidious most days but people say I'm not so I've decided to just go with that one it's better anyway.
What makes a man attractive? Personality! But then again I don't really care what anyone looks like. I think every single one of my friends is beautiful! I know they can't all be but to me they really are! I've said it before and I'll say it again nice smart nerdy guys will always win out over stupid conventinally attractive asses always! But I see that's not generally the case these days.
An I carried such a torch.......For the Dark Lord
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Yay! The enigmatic Warrior Woman graces us 
Very pleased to meet you! 
Copilot. I know how you're feeling. Mine didn't go on for as long, but the knowing just how to kiss someone thing and all that... I feel that too. The thought of trying to start over and get to that point with someone else is quite daunting. I keep wondering if it's ever going to be as good again. 
It still makes me cry at times.
We are here for you, my sister!
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