Male and Female Imponderables Part Deux

POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Monday, May 15, 2006 20:33
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Originally posted by Dayve:

Now, getting off of the subject - whatever the subject may be... i have a question for the ladies about tatoos.... and the question is Why? ...why would you want one? To me the female form is damn-near perfect... and i mean all shapes and sizes... lovely to behold...and i see no need to cover or hide that which is so much nicer left bare and unadorned.....

ok, once again...just me...and i'm an idiot, so be kind....

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I have no tattoos, nor no plans to get any. I considered a few; mostly symbols that were very important to me and then I said to myself, I said "Self, you don't need these symbols on your skin because they're always in your heart. What would you want to spend a lot of money on a painful process to scar them into your lovely, soft and delicate flesh for?" So that's my stance. They can be beautiful, they can be art, they can even be attractive on occasion, but that's a rarity and those are the most expensive kind. So I say give it a miss.
Gonna read the rest of what I missed, now...

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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.

Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.

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Originally posted by Smaug:
Maybe I am a little late to this thread... but it's a subject that I couldn't help but comment on..

Do I beleive in Soulmates? YES!!!!!! I Do.. because I found mine...

And she shared something with me that she had come accross.. that I think would be fitting to share here...

There are 5 stages of love.

1. You fall in love

2. You realize that so much is wrong with what you had thought it was going to be.

3. You spend your time wondering whether to leave, or whether its too much of a hassle and you should just take it and stay. This is the stage where 90% of relationships either end or stay in for the rest of life.

4. You grab a person’s hand… And go through that journey against all odds TOGETHER… to become one.

5. Then you truely fall in love.



I think that is a pretty good description of how it works... UNTIL you find your soulmate. When you find them... you immediatly go to step 5.. and your love and need of them only continues to grow beyond anything you could have imagined. They will make you feel things... you didn't even dream possible... just because of who they are. They will be nothing like you imagined them in your dreams... because they will shatter your dreams and redefine every second of every day.. beyond anything you could have ever fathomed. Is it "perfect"? No... there will always still be misunderstandings... and obsticals.. and any number of other pitfalls.. but the difference is... you NEVER.. not even for a second... feel numbers 2 and 3.. Even in the deepest darkest times... you feel a comfort.. a joy... a happiness... a pleasure... unlike anything you could imagine... and it's never "work". Nothing about them.. or being with them.. is "work"... because they are your number one passion... above anything and everything... so much so... that you miss them to the point of tears... to the point of intense physical pain.... every second they are away.... every second... because every second they are away... you feel... alone and incomplete.

And that's putting it mildly...

Smaug..

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I might just cry...

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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.

Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.

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Originally posted by EmmaRigby:

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As far as human males go, I plan on checking that my next partner is a geek before I go out with him so that I know that we have things in common and he won't make me feel foolish for any odd utterances I happen to come out with.

In fact, I could set up a dating sevice on here (or has this been done before? ) How about it, any single male firefly fans that live in the UK? Actually, I might be brave enough to finally bite the bullet, admit openly that I'm bisexual and ask if there are any single fans of either sex who want to meet up? (Gosh, I'm repressed! It's scary even admitting that to virtual strangers!!)

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Oh boo, you would be across the Pond from me, wouldn't you?
I totally dig geeks, too, for those same reasons. And I don't think I could date anyone who wasn't a browncoat. A browncoat who would call me bao bei. Hopefully such a one would not be the metaphorical frog
We should start a thread for Firefly singles! We totally should! (That's not weird is it? Is that weird?)
Don't worry too much about your lack of Gaydar. It has to be developed. I'm much better at picking out a gay man than a lesbian (bisexuals are near impossible if they don't say anything) so it's been likewise hard for me to find interested women. I've never had a girlfriend, sadly, and haven't known how to go about it. My only advice would be to find some sort of place where such people congregate and see how you do.

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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.

Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.

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