It's pretty much official...

POSTED BY: BadgersHat
UPDATED: Friday, December 3, 2004 01:36
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BADGERSHAT

Tuesday, November 30, 2004 6:39 PM

... after a week with my beloved visiting for the holiday, after much discussion, after much of aforementioned discussion becoming rather heated...

The decision, for now, has been rendered, and she and I are officially on a "break" from our relationship...

[cue sad strings section now]

... so... about that harem...

--Jefé The Hat

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LUNAKITTY

Tuesday, November 30, 2004 7:41 PM

Harsh. :( *hugz*

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MALICIOUS

Tuesday, November 30, 2004 7:47 PM

Awww, my Jefe, I'm sorry. Shall all us Browncoats collectively think bad-karma thoughts at her? That's a pretty awesome weapon to have at your disposal you know, so think long and hard before aiming it at her.

We've got your back, hon.

Mal-licious

Co-Holder of the Red Bell from Hell

THEGREYJEDI

Tuesday, November 30, 2004 9:48 PM

Don't be a safety net! Breaks never work. Breaks are the end. Get out. Get out now. I'm willing to put money down right here and now that she's got her eye on someone else, and wants you waiting in the wings in case it doesn't work. Thus she has a safety net and "isn't" "unfaithful."

Flee! FLEE!!!

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DARKJESTER

Tuesday, November 30, 2004 10:48 PM

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation, El Jefe, but I have to agree with TheGreyJedi (about the first time THATS's ever happened!) - don't wait around for her to figure out what a HUGE mistake she's making. WE all know that she's being less than smart, but she may never see the light.
Don't be mean, and always be polite and friendly when you (rarely) run into her. But don't be a puppydog waiting for her to come back and scratch your ears. You deserve better!

MAL "You only gotta scare him."
JAYNE "Pain is scary..."

MALICIOUS

Wednesday, December 1, 2004 3:20 AM

Can he be my puppydog?

Mal-licious

Co-Holder of the Red Bell from Hell

STATIC

Wednesday, December 1, 2004 4:49 AM

My experience is beyond TheGreyJedi's. . .and I have to agree that he's spot on in his assessment. I hate it for you, brother. . .but bail and bail now.

My suggestion is to completely sever ties for the time being. Don't be mean or hateful. . .just don't BE. . .not in HER world, at least. Don't have any contact whatsoever until you've healed enough that talking to her or being around her won't hurt or piss you off or make you a sap.

This isn't bitter or jaded. . .this is beginning the healing, rather than dragging a hurt out.

Good lookin' fella like you won't be lonely any longer than you choose to be.

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THEREALME

Wednesday, December 1, 2004 5:19 AM

Oh, Hat, I'm sorry.

Hang in there, buddy.

* As one who has screwed up most of his own romantic relationships, The Real Me disqualifies himself to offer any further advice. *

The Real Me

GOJIRO

Wednesday, December 1, 2004 5:42 AM

Just keep lookin' for the next door to open, Jefe. And remember what I said about the knockers ...

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SIGMANUNKI

Wednesday, December 1, 2004 6:00 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by BadgersHat:

The decision, for now, has been rendered, and she and I are officially on a "break" from our relationship...

I'm going to join the corus here.

"Breaks" usually lead to an on again/off again "relationship" for a period of time. Take it from me as I've had some experience with this. End it now, it's a lot worse waiting in limbo, not knowing which ways up and having it end later, than having a clean break.

The choice is basically, a lot of pain now and better later. Or almost as much pain for a prolonged period of time and a longer "recovery" period.

But, if you guys are meant to be together, after time passes and this is all a distant memory, you'll find eachother again and will be able to being anew. But, the smart money doesn't pick this senerio.

In summery, get a clean break, do some soul searching, continue living. Let what will be, be. After all, your true dream girl could be right infront of your face right now. But, that's just my 2 cents.

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