Imponderables: God Loves Ugly

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UPDATED: Tuesday, March 11, 2008 00:15
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RIVERISMYGODDESS

Friday, March 7, 2008 6:32 PM

We might also have to make a pamphlet about doing some of the preliminary work ourselves, unless we include travel fees in our costs.

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics & Transportation Specialist - 76th IAB

About drugs, about alcohol, about pornography and smoking and everything else: What business is it of yours what I do, read, buy, see, say, think, who I fuck, what I take into my body - as long as I do not harm another human being on this planet?

xBox 360 GamerTag: Swinger420

NVGHOSTRIDER

Sunday, March 9, 2008 12:32 AM

Wow, quiet weekend. Must have been the cord wood comment.

Gots mad skillz, loves playing with matches.

LEOPARDFLAN

Sunday, March 9, 2008 2:59 AM

Will J&J body disposal do live bodies, or would I have to kill them first?

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98% of teens have smoked pot, if you are one of the 2% that haven't, copy this into your signature.

MSB

Sunday, March 9, 2008 4:22 AM

NV... oh ha ha

Leopard( ok still adjusting to this name) naw...Jimi's roommate ( and likely Jimi) are more than happy to dispatch people for you..

HUGS Jimi

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Ain't Love GRAND!!!

LEOPARDFLAN

Monday, March 10, 2008 2:15 AM

Yea!

What's the limit of targets?

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98% of teens have smoked pot, if you are one of the 2% that haven't, copy this into your signature.

CHOLLETT

Monday, March 10, 2008 8:09 AM

Alrighty then!

It's late/early here (1 am, and counting, but i'm a college student so this is, unfortunately, normal....) , but I gots me a ponderable.

Do you think it's best to enter a relationship with someone soon after you meet them, or to get to know them first? I know the answer could seem obvious, but here's my sitch:

I like to get to know girls first before I think about asking them out, but falling under the general heading of a "nice guy", by the time i get to know them/vice verse, they ALWAYS only see me as a friend, for whatever reason, be it simply that or because they don't want to ruin the friendship. I mean, that I get, but when you're 19, male, and hormones a'ragin' whether you like it or not, it can get a mite frustrating. In particular, there's a girl (i talked about her in an early, EARLY imponderables thread about 2 years ago) who i went to high school with, lost contact with for most of a year once i graduated, and then reestablished contact with, and she's one of my very best friends. She's told me before that i'm just a very good friend, but recently i decided to tell her once, outright, that i like her. A la Jim (The Office, S.2, Casino Night, just not as dramatic). I emphasized the point that the utmost priority is retaining our friendship, which is absolutely true, but my ponderable still stands.

What say you?

Wow, i really hate writing about a sitch straight out of teenage cliche, but there you have it.

I'm babbling like a moonbrain.

RIVERISMYGODDESS

Monday, March 10, 2008 12:17 PM

mornin' Imponderables.

MsB is right, we'll definitely dispatch them as well as deal with the bodies, we have package deals for that sort of thing. As for a limit, well, I'd say that the only real one is that we won't kill any of our own families or close friends.

Chollett, I'm right there with you on being a "nice guy". I'd always make friends with the girl, then nothing more. I was the one in high school who the girl would come to to cry about asshole #1 leaving her, then her plotting and scheming with me to get asshole #2 to like her. *sigh* To answer your ponderable, I still think it's a good idea to get to know someone before you get too much into a relationship with them. I've rushed into things before, and it definitely isn't the way for me.

*snuggles MsB*

~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics & Transportation Specialist - 76th IAB

About drugs, about alcohol, about pornography and smoking and everything else: What business is it of yours what I do, read, buy, see, say, think, who I fuck, what I take into my body - as long as I do not harm another human being on this planet?

xBox 360 GamerTag: Swinger420

JONNYQUEST

Monday, March 10, 2008 2:55 PM

Mornin' all.

Hi, Jimi. I'm sorta with you on this one. And sorta not.

I've been the friend, too. Oy. Love hath no pain like a love unrequited. Unless you count love lost.

I say if you are "romantically" interested in a girl, it should not be a secret from the start. Let that be the "goal". The method toward that goal is the "getting to know you, getting to know all about you" part. As you get to know one another better, you'll find out if there's a fit. If there's no fit, you can back out quickly and honestly and move on. Bees don't get their pollen all from the same flower. If on the other hand there is a fit, you can follow it as far as it leads. Here's where I part company (but I bet not really) with Jimi. There's no reason to rush in. Don't get attached until the fit is sure. Don't fall for her just because she said yes. Whores will say yes, but that doesn't mean they are for you. Companions say yes, too, but they are chosing you, you're not chosing them. Yes only means let's give it a shot. Your ranging hormones are NOT your heart. Give your heart only to the one you really want.

By the way, Chollett, nice to meet you.

As for the J&J thing, I haven't read up on it all. I'll have to get back to you.

When was the last time we had an underwear thread? I only ask because I came across a product yesterday that profoundly disturbed me and I need to put it in front of the group for discussion. Because, well, I need to understand:

EDIT - (picture gone, but you can still see it on the shelf in stores.)

Does that seem right to you?
(of course, now I'm even more disturbed: the image comes straight out of Amazon...!)

Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself, I am large, I contain multitudes. - Walt Whitman

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SPACEANJL

Monday, March 10, 2008 3:41 PM

That is all kinds of wrong, JQ. The picture, not the other response.

Chollet - My brother always seems to end up being the 'friend' - but then he always seems to fancy a particular type (ie bimbo-with-dubious-boyfriend) The whole world is made up of folks fancying other folks, and not always mutually. You can only give it your best shot.

ZEEK

Monday, March 10, 2008 3:53 PM

JQ!!!!!!!! Where you been man? You need to post more. We haven't had any disturbing pictures of undergarment protection in ages! And yes that is a product that should never exist.

CHOLLETT, I think JQ pretty much nailed that on the head all over the place. Make your intentions known as soon as you find yourself interested in the girl. There's nothing wrong with getting to know her, but if you aren't even hinting that you're interested then she's not the one to blame when she thinks of you just as a friend. There's also nothing wrong with getting to know a person while dating. Just because you go on a few dates you're not signing a contract. It's OK to find out you're not a match after a little while.

Let's be logical here. Dating gets a big 'F' for succes. The only way you get a passing grade is if you fall in love with the first person you date and live happily ever after. Even dating 2 people you're down to a 50% success rate. In reality it's probably going to be something in the single digets of success. There's nothing wrong with it. So, don't worry about finding the perfect person before you even ask them out.

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