Imponderables: Because knowing is half the battle...
POSTED BY: nvghostrider
UPDATED: Thursday, September 27, 2007 15:51
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aawwwwwww ...
~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics Specialist - 76th IAB
-How we behave toward cats here below determines our status in heaven.
-It would be a waste of breath to tell a man who believes in guns that you've got something better.
-Kiss girls all you want to — it beats the hell out of card games.
-I've found out why people laugh. They laugh because it hurts so much… because it's the only thing that'll make it stop hurting.
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Okay, story time. I'll start from the beginning.
My mother. Is it any wonder I am attracted to the sort of women I keep getting tangled on. My mother is a very loving and forgiving woman. In her younger years she was pretty attractive and didn't date a whole lot.
Being a bastard makes a person wonder, "What the hell did I do to deserve this?"
So having been married three times, my mother should know the ins and outs of men. But again she is a very loving and understanding woman.
Skipping ahead from my sperm donor, three husbands, and four kids, leads us here. My mother has custody of my next youngest sisters children. They were home last night with my baby sister and our friend known to the board as GND.
My mothers live in boyfriend Al had been hanging out with his cousin who had recently recieved an isurance settlement. Last night at about eight thirty PM GND text messages me "hey allen is being an asshole 2 ur mom". On my way home I drop off my friend John at his and recieve a call. GND tells me, "Al is getting worse. He is yelling at your mom and has threatened me and your sister." I tell them to take the kids to her house and proceed behind an ambulance headed in the same direction as my home.
Needless to say I felt relieved that the ambulance turned onto another road four miles from my house.
Sliding to a halt in my yard I see my mother standing outside by her car. After asking where he is she tells me that she doesn't know. He just walked off. I talk with my mom for ten minutes before taking my sister some clothes and support equipment for the kids. GND proceeds to tell me that Al had yanked BabyV from her arms and dropped her on the couch.
Jump ahead through the night. I had heard Al enter the house after midninght and figured to let him get a good nights rest because the next day will be a long one.
After my normal triple S I notice that my mother had cooked breakfast and was in Al's room. Strange that they are in a relationship but have been sleeping in seperate rooms for the last five months.
Before leaving for work I knock on the door. Mother answers. I ask why he is still in the house and if she had made a decision. with no answer I ask if she had chosen Al over her family. Still no answer. I step throught the door after I hear him ask, "What's this all about?"
Now, alot of things ran through my mind the night before. Anything from dragging his drunk ass outside by the ankle after he passed out to feeding him to the pigs. But my actions were a bit more civil.
Asking if he had manhandled BabyV I recieved a "No". Stating that I had at least two witnesses still got a negative answer. When asking my mother if she had see him do it she answers quietly, "I would have to say yes."
CLICK.
To me it is the sound of the safety clicking into the OFF position. Strangely, it was completely the opposite.
I tell him to be gone by noon when I return for my lunch break. When trying to talk his way out I tell him that if I return and he is not gone, Law Enforcement and Social Services should be there at one.
Not sure exactly what has happened since. He is not at home and neither is my mother.
Funny, I had a "friend" tell me yesterday afternoon that she'd be there if I needed her. She knew there was something wrong yesterday and I was already on edge over it. What's more funny is that I text messaged her to call my mother. They talk as women and it helps both of them. So far, nothing.
A person really finds out who their friends are in a time of crisis. John has texted me twice last night and twice today making sure everything is cool.
Seems I got alot of anger out during lunch, but there is still half a day to tend to. Thinkin' I might be leaving here in the next hour.
So there is the story for the afternoon. I do believe everything will be perfectly fine. There are still a few more details to work out but things usually get better over time.
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HUGS NV...email on way
"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs
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Sounds like a difficult situation NV. I'm sure you're on top of things though. Just keep those kids safe.
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Oh NV will take good care of everyone...it's his way:)
HUGS Zeek....how are you anyway?
"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs
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Awww NVG that sounds horrible :( Sorry man wish there was something I could do.
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Best movie villain name ever: Felix La Poubelle
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Poor MsG, stuck in a classroom, sitting in her chair all by herself ...
~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics Specialist - 76th IAB
-How we behave toward cats here below determines our status in heaven.
-It would be a waste of breath to tell a man who believes in guns that you've got something better.
-Kiss girls all you want to — it beats the hell out of card games.
-I've found out why people laugh. They laugh because it hurts so much… because it's the only thing that'll make it stop hurting.
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Yeah the distractions are killing me
EDIT- LOL I meant boredom...yes the boredom is killing me
"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs
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You should take my laptop tomorrow and watch a dvd :)
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Best movie villain name ever: Felix La Poubelle
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