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Male and Female Imponderables-Let it Snow

POSTED BY: msg
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Friday, December 1, 2006 5:47 PM

Hello JonnyQuest:

I have been bouncing between threads so much today I'm probably stalking you.


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Friday, December 1, 2006 5:49 PM

LA- don't worry you are completely stuck with us like it or not

I certainly hope that I have changed for the etter in the last five years seeing that I was 15 then. I'll go ahead and give myself the benefit of the doubt in saying that I have matured a bit anf I have definitely gotten nicer, but with the niceness (is that a word?...oh well)I have also gotten shy which I could do without.


remember that a kick in the ass is a step forward

Shamrock
www.myspace.com/clover718

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Friday, December 1, 2006 6:00 PM

...and now I have time to post!

Has my personality changed in the last five years? Yes and no. A lot has happened to me, and I do mean a lot! Bereavement, redundancy, bullying at work, depression, BIG change in my career and a change in my family circumstances too. Lots of drama, basically.

I'm definately a stronger, happier person than I was, but I also recognise a lot about myself that hasn't changed. Not all of it negative, mind you, just personality stuff more than anything.

Shocking though it may sound given my job and my behaviour here, I'm actually quite introverted and solitary by nature. I have a few friends, but not a wide social circle, and I'm much happier sitting at home with my nose stuck in a book than I am on a wild night out. I'd get lonely without any social contact, but I don't need a great deal of it. Must be why I attention seek like crazy once I'm here!

I also get a lot of contact from my job since I'm dealing with people, and I'm lucky in that I tend to get on with most people.

Despite everything I'm still a people pleaser and I don't think I'll ever take criticism as well as I should. Overall though, I'm happy with me Not perfect, but definately okay!




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Friday, December 1, 2006 6:02 PM

Why thank you Mei-Mei .
I just checked out you mypace page.IS that your boyfriend ? You guys look so cute together !

And I did the what is your exotic dancer name & it came back with Skittles.Too funny.

DTH - is it safe to say that you're a happy hippie ?

Bryce
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She rings like a bell through the night,and wouldn't you love to love her ? Takes to the sky like a bird in flight and who will be her lover ? All your life you've never seen a woman taken by the sky.Would you stay if she promised you heaven ? Would you even try ? -Stevie Nicks

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MSG
Friday, December 1, 2006 6:03 PM

Hey Blackshamrock good to see you here:)

Jonny- I love it when you follow me:) HUGS

LA- we will always love you hon. Nothing could change that.

James- Hang in there. It might be a bumpy ride, but you'll get somewhere amazing in the end and then you can pity all those people with the smooth ride who don't know what you know



"A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort."- Albright


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Friday, December 1, 2006 6:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JonnyQuest:

Sam: Hey, what's happening, Norm?
Norm: Well, it's a dog-eat-dog world, Sammy, and I'm wearing Milk-Bone underwear.



Hey, JQ. Add me as a friend to your MySpace page. Clementine2507 (under pressure, I got the dang year wrong). Nathan will vouch for me. Or Tristan or PhoenixRose.

BTW, a motivational speaker I heard once (Tim Sanders, really funny) pointed out that it's a dog-sniff-dog's-butt world.

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Friday, December 1, 2006 6:18 PM

Yep, LA, I'm a happy hippie!

Oh, and on what you said earlier - don't worry! It's very, very easy to get caught in a cycle of negative thinking, always bracing yourself for the next crisis/disaster/trauma. Life doesn't work that way, difficult though it may be to believe sometimes! It can be very, very hard to do when things are at their worst, but if you believe that your troubles will end and good times will come then they really will. I swear! It happens for real!



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Friday, December 1, 2006 6:23 PM

I would tend to agree with you DTH, but can we get the universe onboard here ?
But things are pretty good right now.Other than having a 2 year old that seems determined to break everything in the house.


Bryce
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She rings like a bell through the night,and wouldn't you love to love her ? Takes to the sky like a bird in flight and who will be her lover ? All your life you've never seen a woman taken by the sky.Would you stay if she promised you heaven ? Would you even try ? -Stevie Nicks

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Friday, December 1, 2006 6:25 PM

Ah yes, the wilfully destructive child Kids are like that. My friend's toddler has an unerring eye for the most dangerous place any toddler can be and goes there at top speed. It's really funny to see.




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Friday, December 1, 2006 6:33 PM

I just removed him from his millionth time out of the day & asked sternly "are you going to climb up to the dvd player again?" and he just smiled his best devil smile & said "Yes Mommy I am."

I've lost this battle.

Bryce
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She rings like a bell through the night,and wouldn't you love to love her ? Takes to the sky like a bird in flight and who will be her lover ? All your life you've never seen a woman taken by the sky.Would you stay if she promised you heaven ? Would you even try ? -Stevie Nicks

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