Loafer's Nook - 23 skidoo and more fooding.
POSTED BY: Jadehand
UPDATED: Saturday, October 21, 2006 10:32
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You've got a full head of hair, a body in very good shape and a great smile (which works well with your laugh).
Or, to ignore the superficial, you've got a good job, you're creative and see projects through (as those CGI creations plus the work at Still Flying prove) and you're generous in times, spirit and resources with those around you. And you have a brain.
However, my guess is you're too hung up on how you think others see you (in purely aesthetic terms) so what I would suggest is you do some internet dating. It's a great way to practice flirting, courtship, making forward advances, etc, etc without the pressure of doing it face to face. Plus you might just meet someone special out there.
Just think of us as those annoying guys in Swingers, pushing Jon Favreau to Heather Graham. You are that guy with big claws and she's a helpless rabbit...
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haha, i feel inadequate next to citizen
actually, at d*c i felt rather inadequate to be in any of you fine folks' company...i've just gotten to the point where i know i can't change that, so i just trudge on and ignore it as best i can, basically not caring what others think (or at least i can fool myself into thinking that).
a lovecraft quote caught my eye the other day, something along the lines of ignorance being mans' greatest asset...i think there's more truth in that than he might have meant to convey
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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
I will NOT allow such negative thinking on these threads. I will NOT! *stamps foot* Every one of you is a wonderful and attractive male type person who any woman with any amount of sense would be happy to be with.
This is very true. I'm done with the negative, the self loathing should have died with my father who nurtured it within me. Him leveling a gun at me didn't help. Me looking him in the eye and walking into it did. I'm not much of a man, but I'm already more of one than he was.... forward.
Now..... where do I find these women with any amount of sense?

"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
visit WWW.Marillion.com for a better way of life.
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Originally posted by LightMeDark:
haha, i feel inadequate next to citizen
actually, at d*c i felt rather inadequate to be in any of you fine folks' company...i've just gotten to the point where i know i can't change that, so i just trudge on and ignore it as best i can, basically not caring what others think (or at least i can fool myself into thinking that).
a lovecraft quote caught my eye the other day, something along the lines of ignorance being mans' greatest asset...i think there's more truth in that than he might have meant to convey
Ah, so it's not just me that thought all the ladies were more interested in Sean than anyone else. Wow, if half the things he believes about himself were true, and I'm so much worse... wow.
Right, positive.
Sean, I'm a god, and obviously you're more appealing than that. It's sad that so many you've encountered left you feeling low. But in honesty, that's more a commentary on their poor quality. It doesn't bring you down. It shouldn't. Rise up with me, I've been down there for many more years than you, Trust me, I've explored the depths thoughoughly.... there's nothing down there worth your time. No matter how much you want there to be.
*points up*
See those angels up there saying nice things about you, and demanding you do the same? They know what they're talking about. Smart ladies. And they have friends.....
"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
visit WWW.Marillion.com for a better way of life.
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Quote:Ok, I find wonky noses and really thick crunchy Yorkshire accents inexplicably sexy.
Originally posted by LightMeDark:Quote:
Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
And, stop being negative, or I'll give you homework, too!
And yes, I'm losing interest in Lost. Except: naked Des! HA!
can't help it ;p
The female unit thinks Des is good looking, too...I thought he was alright in LTDA2 with the short hair in his flashbacks, but i was rather shocked to see women saying they found him attractive.
Theres absolutely no rhyme nor reason to what attracts women.
Or me anyway.
Des is attractive, and the prospect of naked Des is intriguing, but when it comes to lost, i'm still all Sawyers - i just don't like the way Des speaks to people, what is it he calls everyone all the time? brother?
Sean, all that stuff about data is rubbish - 'data' bears no relevence to the total chaos that is the real world, if thats even what you are going on about.
Stuart is right - you have all those atributes, plus. Your issue is you are so hung up on the negative its all you think you have.
Honestly, ok, I'm fat, so fat that i see complete strangers sniggering about me everyday But, I also know that i'm pretty, talented, above average intelligent, funny, warm hearted and great to hang around with.
With all that, i'm not sure i give a shit that i don't conform looks wise, i'm fine as i am, and you said yourself not so long ago, that if it were an option, you'd be interested.
So how do you reason that someone who is laughed at in the street like a sideshow freak is can also be attractive enough to find someone, and yet you - like somebody said, able bodied, talented and with an apparently magnetic personality, will not?
It doesn't work like that. There's hundreds out there that will gel with you happily enough for you to bump along through life together (or, if you are that way inclined, fall madly in love with you)for however long, and you'll be perfectly happy.
Theres billions of folks on this planet, and just by being here you're giving yourself access to more of them than most people have.
oh, enough of this piffle.
Sean stop being such an arse. POSITIVE THINKING!
LMD - you don't give yourself enough credit either - you hung around on the fringes slightly because thats where you put yourself - honestly, for the first day or two i wasn't sure if you weren't a mute. You just have to get involved more.
Do what i do! blather incessently at people!
ER, actually don't do that, i'm trying to stop those tendencys.
Its not working is it? Still blathering, oh god some one stop me!
http://www.myspace.com/seryndippyt
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And, since we're listing Sean's positive attributes I'm going to add GREAT hair (why did you cut those lovely locks?), sexy lips and a rather nice..um..backside to the list. Not that I was looking or anything. 
Stuart's right. You've got a great smile! You need to smile more often, and at more pretty girls.
The power here keeps winking. It needs to either stop, or just cut out all together so I can't do my work and can go home.
Not that I'm actually DOING any work! 
Oh, and naked Des was sooooo worth it! He's lovely.
Serenity,
President of The Juggled Gosling Chatroom
Bride8
http://callmeserenity.livejournal.com/
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of course there's no working, all time is consumed playing with the new printer.
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that isn't set up yet.
Serenity,
President of The Juggled Gosling Chatroom
Bride8
http://callmeserenity.livejournal.com/
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Awww. I know you're looking forward to it. I hope everything else is going well. I'm going to try to nap a bit before the second part of my work day. See you all soon. 
"But you sleep like a ghost with me
It's as simple as that
So tell me I'm mad
Roll me up and breathe me in
Come to my madness
My opium den
Come to my madness
Make sense of it again."
Goodbye to all that. III-The Opium Den (Brave)-Marillion
visit WWW.Marillion.com for a better way of life.
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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
And, I'm going on speculation with SR, since I've never actually seen his picture.
No one's seen me yet. Ha Ha! Mine is a evil laugh!

I described myself to Seryn a while back so you can ask her for a third hand description. I would be curious to hear what she made with ingredients I gave her and her imagination.
Scorpion Regent
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