Male and Female Imponderables--What's done is done

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UPDATED: Wednesday, July 12, 2006 13:09
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NVGHOSTRIDER

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:23 PM

Thanks for sharing. Gives me hope. How 'bout y'all? Things go to crap so often that it is hard to see one posative gorram thing.

Entertained by your fingers? That may be TMI. Or not. Depends. I don't really don't know how to take it.

What the hell, jump in.

Rambling

I'll be in my bunk.

ADD: Thanks FMF. Needed the Tigger to face the day. Gotta go see the big bosses about Sixty grand in missing funds (their fault, not ours).

"Where do bad folks go when they die?"

COPILOT

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:27 PM

I was waving my fingers in front of my face! I don't know if that constiutes too much information. If it does I'm sorry. I'm just being incredably open today and probably for the rest of my life. I can't keep secrets anymore! I don't have the energie to be cageie!

Edit~It seems the more "me" I get the more the world around me loves me. I do crazy rediculious stuff and loose things and walk into walls. The people around me laugh and hug me and call me magic! I'm some much needed entertainment it seems.

Arrrrgggggggg I know he's at work but I want him here right now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

An I carried such a torch

KENOBIUS

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:36 PM

I guess you have to know yourself before you can know others. I agree on the secrets thing copilot, it's not worth the energy anymore. People ask me how I am doing, I don't lie anymore, I tell them "Pretty lonely" Someone asks me what I want to do with my life, I tell them "No idea."

Same thing with makin' people smile. I'll be the idiot if people find it funny. As much as I hate it down here on the bottom, I don't want others trapped here too. If that makes any sense.

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RUGBUG

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:37 PM

Dont mind me. Just playing here to see if this works:

Oh, you guys are in for it now. I found out how to use other emoticons. See, I'm not a dumb blonde, I'm just a blonde with too little time on her hands.

NVGHOSTRIDER

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:38 PM

Anticipation is the worst. My suggestion. Bottle it up. Occupy yourself. Do a puzzle or something. Then, when he arrives, attack him like a starving Cougar.

About the finger thing, that was my first guess.

(Points) Its the magic COPILOT. Everyone bask in her shiny greatness!

"Where do bad folks go when they die?"

MAL4PREZ

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:39 PM

Here's an imponderable - may be more of a ramble than a question...

A thing I'm finding in my dating adventures: I have a pretty srong personality and I'm quite sure of myself. I think the poor fellas see this and step lightly around me, which makes sense in this day and age of the kinder, more sensitive male. But...

I've been realizing that I want a 50/50 kind of thing. I want a man to take charge and be opinionated, as long as he's willing to let me do the same.

um... example. If a guy's iffy about what to do on a date, I'll just say let's go here and do this. Because I'm impatient. And they don't argue. But I really would be fine if a man had a different plan and whisked me away. That could even be romantic and fun.

To make it a question: guys - do you feel like the new age of feminine power traps you into being meek? How have you managed to find a balance?

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I'm the president. I don't need to listen.

DAYVE

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:41 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Entertained by your fingers? That may be TMI.

ah...i could stand to hear some more.......

endeavor to persevere...

DAYVE

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:51 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by mal4prez:
....do you feel like the new age of feminine power traps you into being meek? How have you managed to find a balance?

i'll bite (btw-i didn't mean to crude in my last post - just reminded of that Jayne line...)

but the question sorta goes back to the whole 'be yourself' thing....
i have never felt intidated by women - i even let them open doors for me.... i don't think that makes me meek.... i firmly believe in gender equality and if that makes me less of a man in someones eyes...then that person needs to have his eyes examined.....

one thing i will not stand for is bigotry in any form or fashion....

endeavor to persevere...

KENOBIUS

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:55 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by mal4prez:

To make it a question: guys - do you feel like the new age of feminine power traps you into being meek? How have you managed to find a balance?

New age?

I haven't really managed, then again, I'm a pretty meek guy to begin with. Also, haven't been on a date in forever.

I actually like it when the ladies know what they want and aren't afraid to tell you about it. I guess that's the happy balance for me; speaking your mind.

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MSG

Tuesday, July 11, 2006 5:59 PM

Copilot I love your go for it enthusiasm,but slow down hon and look very very carefully ok...not through the haze please. I am not saying he isn't great, but I am saying you are and I want you to be really happy like you deserve so go nice and slow:)

NV- you want minor happiness? Will that help? I am personally very happy today 'cause I splurged at bath and body works ( sells lotions, body wash, perfume, etc.) and now I smell fabulous. Got shampoo, conditioner, body wash,perfume and lotion all in the same scent and just spent an hour in the happy grooming phase so I am all silky and happy and I love that I smell like coconut lime verbena:)See this is why I am so annoyingly happy and positive. The dumbest little things make me incredibly happy.Also got room freshner so house smells nice too( I like house to look clean, but I love it when it smells clean too)

OK I keep wanting to ask this question, but it's a bit racy and kind of personal and a bit silly sooo...I'm not sure y'all want to be involved in it. hmmm

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2

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