Male and Female Imponderables Part Deux

POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Monday, May 15, 2006 20:33
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AZHEA

Friday, May 5, 2006 9:31 PM

If I gave you my phone number Lysander, would you call my husband and describe that to him... sounds heavenly... the kissing down my back thing...

I love kissing, when done right. Petting is great too!!

I do most of the driving, and have my moments. I tend to think (and will get flammed by the other Ladies here I'm sure ) that women are worse drivers, being easily distracted. Just my opinion, but when I see someone do something stupid its usually a woman talking on her cell or putting makeup on.

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TRISTAN

Friday, May 5, 2006 9:45 PM

JPSTARGAZER, Amen to that! As a fellow male driver, I have had to swallow comments on friends' driving before...but same goes for a woman driver...I am not stupid enough to actually say anything to a female driver, because I am just as likely to do something stupid...and we all know a woman's memory is like a steel trap compared to us males

AZHEA, if you have not experienced the kissing-down-the-back thing, you are missing out. We males that discover this holy grail of technique have used it to our advantage countless times!

Holding until you get back, Captain.

SASSALICIOUS

Friday, May 5, 2006 9:46 PM

Not entirely sure what I feel about soulmates, but I know I'm definitely not looking for one right now.

AZHEA

Friday, May 5, 2006 9:58 PM

Here's a question then...

What's the best way to open on this subject, to gently ask that he try it? My man is pretty open to such things, but I'd LOVE to hear what you hunky men have to say on the matter.

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TRISTAN

Friday, May 5, 2006 10:02 PM

Well, beyond asking flat out that he give it a shot, you can always try hinting at trying something new. Use the kissing all over thing as foreplay. Males (well, most...ok, maybe some) listen for cues that they are doing the right thing...moaning or movement at the right time, say when he kisses the back of your neck, could be enough of a cue to lead him the rest of the way down the back. Or, failing that, try the "hey, let me do someehing to you, and you do the same to me". Might work! You say he is pretty open, so there are a few ideas!

Holding until you get back, Captain.

TRISTAN

Friday, May 5, 2006 10:37 PM

Ladies and Gentlemen, I must depart the 'Verse for awhile and travel into TRW...I should be back on later tonight...hopefully I will see some of you there.

Holding until you get back, Captain.

LYSANDER

Friday, May 5, 2006 10:39 PM

Okay, I'm not sure I fit into the whole "hunky" category, but what the heck. There is nothing wrong with asking. That is one of the best ways to get ideas out that you would like to explore. Plus, there is nothing wrong with a woman who is straight forward and asks for what she wants. Besides, sometimes guys don't get the whole hinting thing.

Simon: What if he(Mal) tells you to kill me?
Zoe: (without hesitation) I kill you.

AZHEA

Saturday, May 6, 2006 1:51 AM

We communicate fairly well, no worries.

I was more interested in a general sense how that sort of thing should be handled from your prespective. Personally, I like when my partner tells me to do something he likes. I might be the natural submissive nature in me.

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TRISTAN

Saturday, May 6, 2006 4:23 AM

Submissive is good...sometimes. If you are interested in getting what you want, you have to speak up every now and then. Men do like to be told what to do in bed, generally, as much as we like being able to direct what is going on. I do not really like the terms "submissive" and "dominant"...to me they denote S&M or wolf packs. I prefer give and take; find that it usually works out better.

Holding until you get back, Captain.

PHOENIXROSE

Saturday, May 6, 2006 7:32 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by SameErtia:
I believe in soul-mates.
But I also believe that we are not always destined to be together in any particular lifetime, that as souls working our way up the enlightenment ladder we often have to be apart to learn the lessons presented to us.
I try not to spend my life wondering when I will find the person to complete me, and focus instead on being complete as I am. Does that make any sense?

Makes perfect sense to me.
I like the idea of soul mates, and I've found many people who seem to complete me, though not all have been lovers, but so many of those relationships have fallen apart that I wonder. I think "soul ties" might be a better description.

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