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Imponderables: Dancy Puppet Heart Strings

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Monday, May 12, 2008 4:13 PM

Kinda wierd being at work feeling some sort of upheavel and such.

Previous thread:
http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=2&t=33533

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Monday, May 12, 2008 4:52 PM

Ooh! Did I get firsties?

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Monday, May 12, 2008 5:09 PM

Indeed you did.

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Monday, May 12, 2008 5:12 PM

I thought rain in southern California in mid-May was illegal, at least during daylight hours? What gives?!

Sigh. Feeling crappy and the weather isn't helping. Pulled the trigger a week and a half ago on all the job craziness, only to have my health flare up last week. I simply cannot do the hours and the stress, so now I'm going to have to back out of it. On the bright side, the idea of getting out from under some of this stress actually feels really really good. Looking forward to that.

Other than that, I love my car, and Iron Man rocks. That is all.

~CK

You can't take the sky from me...

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Monday, May 12, 2008 5:18 PM

Loved the flick. Got to hear a rerun of Jon Favreau on the Adam Corrolla show while driving to Reno Saturday. I hope he gets to make the movie he wants to make after all this. He said he didn't want to make the atypical hero movie of the likes we've seen lately and I think he really pulled off something great.

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Monday, May 12, 2008 5:30 PM

I really really enjoyed it, and I'm glad to hear the sequels have already been greenlit.

I had the funniest reaction to Jon Favreau in the film. I saw him in that sequence in Vegas and thought "Oh, the guy from Swingers. Wonder what he's been up to the past few years? Glad he's getting work." It was about two hours after getting back from the movie that I realized that that *is* Jon Favreau, lol. Still enjoyed his performance in the movie, though.

~CK

You can't take the sky from me...

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Monday, May 12, 2008 5:36 PM

My favorite was the interactionbetween him and Tony Stark. As the driver he seemed very protective not only of Tony but also of RD Jr. Just wish I could have a cool enough boss who'd let me race against him in a Bentley with his luggage to the airport.

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Monday, May 12, 2008 6:26 PM

The movie was great. The only parts I didn't like were the parts where Tony Stark surviving just about anything that happens to him. Sorry but he would have been crushed a few times in that movie. Still it's a super hero movie so I let it slide and give it four stars.

Now can I be Tony Stark please?

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MSB
Monday, May 12, 2008 7:05 PM

Nv and hope for the upheaval to settle

Oh I loved Iron Man. I thought it was a really good example of a comic book genre movie.

CK- I'm so sorry you had to give up on your dream job. HUGS and hope the flares calm when you go back to consulting

OK trying to decide if I should eat this sucker. It's blue raspberry and I am pretty sure it'll turn my tongue blue and I have an IEP meeting to attend at 2...I wonder if the color will wear off by then..



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Monday, May 12, 2008 7:20 PM

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Originally posted by MSB:
OK trying to decide if I should eat this sucker. It's blue raspberry and I am pretty sure it'll turn my tongue blue and I have an IEP meeting to attend at 2...I wonder if the color will wear off by then..


I vote no. "Good things come to those who wait". Or something like that. I think it means the sucker will turn into ketchup if you wait.

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MSB
Monday, May 12, 2008 7:39 PM

too late...now I just have to get this blue tongue to wear off...

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Monday, May 12, 2008 8:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MSB:
too late...now I just have to get this blue tongue to wear off...


But now you don't get ketchup.

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MSB
Monday, May 12, 2008 10:39 PM

That's ok. I have no fries or hot dogs so why would I want ketsup?



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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:52 AM

yay, HERE'S the new thread :-P

ketchup is only good if u have fries or a burger to put it on. srsly.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 2:54 PM

No way ketchup goes good with everything or nothing. In conclusion, ketchup is always good.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:11 PM

ew, it does not. ketchup does not go with fruit. or ice cream.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:26 PM

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Originally posted by freelancertex:
ew, it does not. ketchup does not go with fruit. or ice cream.


Of course it does. Have you tried it? You'll never know how good a ketchup covered kiwi is until you've tried it.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 3:53 PM


i wish there were a way to make smilies bigger. i just lost my appetite.

mbnh shit ><

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 4:52 PM

Funny. MSB mentioned catsup on chili last night and I scoffed at first but remembered that I like catsup with a chili dog. Might have to try it now.

Oh, good morning ponderers.

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MSB
Tuesday, May 13, 2008 5:41 PM

I only mentioned it because my dad eats it that way...it was neither and endorsement nor a reccomendation...giggle

Ok kiwi with ketsup is enough to make me nauseous... but then again I do have the flu

All I can say is this day better end soon

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 6:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MSB:
I only mentioned it because my dad eats it that way...it was neither and endorsement nor a reccomendation...giggle


You can tell him that Zeek approves of his chili eating style. I'm sure it will warm his heart to know.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:43 PM

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Originally posted by MSB: but then again I do have the flu

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaw *gets MSB a blanket and some tea, puts the soup on the stove, and joins MSB on the couch with a cup of tea herself* been feelin a bit dizzy myself lately, dunno what's wrong with me. i'd check for a fever, but mom has effectively hidden the thermometer lol :-P i'll keep u company though ^_^

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 7:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zeek:
Does anybody have a ZeeBug signal? The imponerables needs a hero!



Dun, duh-da-dunnnnn....Zeebug is here. Just what you all have been waiting for.

CK: The car is adorable. Glad you love it. And sorry about the job and the flare. :(

MSB...just say no to the flu. It is evil and gross.

Zeek: how is the wii game? (was it Mario Kart? 'cuase if so...I wanna come over. 'Tis the only game I like :D)

My world has been crazy lately. I tired of it. Work is busy. Not-work is busy. I literally get home, shower and go straight to bed. It's exhausting. I got talked into getting up at 5:30 on Sunday so I could trailer a barnmate to her first away-from-home show. I SOOOOOOO wanted to sleep and laze the day away. I think I should get huge karma points for not.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by RugBug:
Zeek: how is the wii game? (was it Mario Kart? 'cuase if so...I wanna come over. 'Tis the only game I like :D)

My world has been crazy lately. I tired of it. Work is busy. Not-work is busy. I literally get home, shower and go straight to bed. It's exhausting. I got talked into getting up at 5:30 on Sunday so I could trailer a barnmate to her first away-from-home show. I SOOOOOOO wanted to sleep and laze the day away. I think I should get huge karma points for not.


Indeed it is mario kart. It's fun but not as fun as it could be. The items just play way to big of a role now. With 12 players per race there are so many items being thrown about that it's just a big crap shoot. Still I like the wii wheel and it is fun to play online some.

Sorry to hear about being so busy. Though sometimes it's nice for a short length of time.


In other Zeek news, my manager just announced she's retiring at the end of the month. Woohoo! No more bad performance evaluations from her! I still have to write up everything I've been up to so far this year for her to report to the new manager. Bah! I'm sure she'll have complaints for whoever they bring in. Though I'll still get to start over and hopefully make a better impression. Don't know what this lady has against me other than she has no idea what my job is about.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:27 PM

whats a zeebug?

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MSB
Tuesday, May 13, 2008 8:49 PM

I'd say no Bug, but it's too late. The flu is firmly entrenched..sigh

Thanks FLT...

HUGS Zeek... I'll let him know:)

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 9:14 PM

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Originally posted by freelancertex:
whats a zeebug?


Well you could say it's a Zeek + Rugbug hybrid. Though I think it's easier just to say it's an uber being.

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 9:36 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zeek:
Quote:

Originally posted by freelancertex:
whats a zeebug?


Well you could say it's a Zeek + Rugbug hybrid. Though I think it's easier just to say it's an uber being.



Not only easier, but correct. ;)



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MSB
Tuesday, May 13, 2008 9:49 PM

why oh why can't I just go home?? Oh yeah that's right I have to present to a bunch of teachers.... sigh. I should have just been a moderately competant person...



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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 10:00 PM

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Originally posted by MSB:
why oh why can't I just go home?? Oh yeah that's right I have to present to a bunch of teachers.... sigh. I should have just been a moderately competant person...


What the!? You have the flu and you're not at home!?! I just assumed you were home sick. Go home! Get some rest!

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 10:05 PM

*kidnaps MSB and whisks her home* WHAT ARE U DOING NOT HOME???

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Tuesday, May 13, 2008 10:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MSB:
why oh why can't I just go home?? Oh yeah that's right I have to present to a bunch of teachers.... sigh. I should have just been a moderately competant person...



Zeebug suggests hurling on the teachers. She is pretty sure you will be sent home tout d'suite.

She also gives you a shoulder squeeze as a real hug might infect her...and wishes you a speedy return to health.

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MSB
Tuesday, May 13, 2008 10:35 PM

nope I'm not home. I had 2 observations to do today and I had the presentation for the SIP teachers so I'm here. I've only got 25 minutes left though and I can go home. Don't think I'm coming in tomorrow...



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Wednesday, May 14, 2008 2:15 AM

good, u stay home. *locks MSB in her house with homemade chicken soup and hot tea* O_O

Grades:

Film -- A
English -- A
Linguistics -- B
Physics -- A-

me=happy ^_^

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Wednesday, May 14, 2008 12:57 PM

mornin' Imponderables.


~jimi
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Wednesday, May 14, 2008 3:18 PM

Morning RIMG. What have you been up to?

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Wednesday, May 14, 2008 3:37 PM

MORNING RIMG *glomps*

*sees zeek* MORNING ZEEK *glomps*

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MSB
Wednesday, May 14, 2008 4:48 PM

ooh great greades FLT!!! Good work

HUGS Jimi ..morning sweety

Yup I'm home...as is NV ( though he's running a few errands right now). I slept in until 9:30 and I'm feeling better.

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Wednesday, May 14, 2008 7:56 PM

Soooooo quiet. *lights up the ZeeBug signal*

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Wednesday, May 14, 2008 8:37 PM

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Originally posted by MSB: ooh great greades FLT!!! Good work

faaaaaaaaaaanks, aint they though? ^_^ make me happy

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 12:03 AM

Good grades are always good ^_^

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 12:52 AM

totally are ^_^ *is on cloud nine* this makes my year :-P

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 4:13 PM

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Originally posted by LeopardFlan:
Good grades are always good ^_^



Are you sure?

Hola ponderers. Took the day to do anything but work. Okay, so I fixed a few small things (still needs to hang curtains) and went shooting. I guess its time to work now.



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Thursday, May 15, 2008 5:24 PM

Ah yes work...
Much easier now that I'm feeling better:)

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 6:42 PM

Ponderer: Would you guys ever try to get involved in a friends financial situation? And by get involved I mean try to give advice and stuff. I've got a friend who is awful at finances mainly because she's awful at thinking ahead and planning anything. So, it's like "see money...spend money...bounce check...can't pay loans...bad bad bad". It's really none of my business but it's like seeing a train wreck coming that can be stopped if they just switch the tracks but you know they aren't going to on their own. Argh.

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 6:51 PM

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Originally posted by Zeek:
Soooooo quiet. *lights up the ZeeBug signal*



There was this horrible buzzing in my ears all yesterday afternoon. Now I know the source. ;)

Ponder: Don't get involved. The person won't change their ways and it will just be frustrating for both. They will feel guilty when you are around and then they won't want to hang around with you anymore. It's sad, but most of the time, people have to dig themselves a giant hole before they will listen to others and/or change the behaviour.

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 6:54 PM

*Stares in awe at the Magnificent ZeeBug*

I gota agree with that. Chances are you'll end up helping more than you need to making for an unhappy Zeek (Hulk no like seeing unhappy Ponderer).

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 7:38 PM

HUGS Zeek I going to agree with NV and Bug. It won't help. She's locked her pattern. I have a friend who has done the same thing and he's in pretty deep. He's always stressed about money and I'd so love to shove him into credit counseling, but sigh... won't help. He has to see it for himself
If it just gets to where you can't take it... you might anonymously mail her pamphlets from various credit counseling services ( don't put on your return address and mail from some generic post office)

Ok I think I have just eaten the least nutritious lunch ever. I don't want to leave the office and one of my co-workers ran to starbucks so I'm having one of those micro bags of cheetos they put in kids lunches( which I tossed in the drawer from my last training) and a venti iced half caf mocha from starbucks...



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Thursday, May 15, 2008 7:58 PM

[rant]It seems to me that this day and age, people feel entitled to 'things' no matter if they actually have the money for them. A lot have grown up with mom and/or dad buying them whatever they wanted in some desperate need to fulfill some standard of parenting that they didn't expierence. This 'My child will have the best of everything' child-rearing tatic leads to REALLY unhealthy adults with poor work ethics who think they deserve what they want simply for existing. Poopsy-kins has no idea how to work, how to save, or that going into serious debts has serious consequences. [/rant]

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 9:24 PM

but but but...bah. It's just so annoying to watch a friend keep making such terrible decisions. It doesn't help that I'm a tight wad and will probably save money like it's going out of style for my whole life. So, watching her do the opposite with negative effects is just painful. Oh well I guess it's not my problem. I just have to close my eyes, cover my ears and go lalalalalala a lot.

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MSB
Thursday, May 15, 2008 9:41 PM

Just whatever you do...do NOT bail her out. Nothing is worse for friends or family than someone who continuously bails them out. They have to hit bottom and learn or they will never ever learn to stand on their own

ok that was my little rant.

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Thursday, May 15, 2008 10:19 PM

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Originally posted by MSB:
Just whatever you do...do NOT bail her out. Nothing is worse for friends or family than someone who continuously bails them out. They have to hit bottom and learn or they will never ever learn to stand on their own

ok that was my little rant.


Hmmmm what do you consider bailing out? For instance there's a browncoat night at a minor league baseball game coming up and I know she's a fan so I asked her if she wanted to come along. She said she couldn't afford it and I was all "I'll buy your ticket if you want". Bailing out or just being nice? I don't consider the ticket to be a major expense.

But no I wouldn't be offering any sort of large sums of money to pay off debt or anything. I'm not giving up spending the money on myself so that someone else can go blow their money on ipods and junk just to live off my savings.


So, that sorta leads to another ponder this friend has brought up in my mind. Do any of you guys consider another person's debt a problem for relationships? I'm not interested in her romantically, but I've thought what if I was and I found out later that she's in a bunch of debt and if we got married she'd just demolish my credit and suck up all my savings paying off her debt. I'd be pretty upset about it I think. It would really depend on when I found out I guess. If I'd been dating her for a long time and fell head over heels by the time I found out about the debt then I don't know what I'd do.

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MSB
Thursday, May 15, 2008 10:42 PM

Yeah I consider money management a deal breaker. Not in the you have to make as much or more money than me, but if someone's completely irresponsible with money like that girl, it makes you worry. What if you got involved, but her debt kept you from getting a house. What if you had a joint account and she drained it to buy clothes right before you were about to do something important that you'd agreed on ( happened to my cousin. His wife ( now ex) cleaned out their bank account to buy a bunch of nice clothes and that meant they couldn't go on a cruise they'd been planning ( and he'd been saving for) for a year.
I also wouldn't count minor stuff like they were stretched to their limit. If they pay bills before pleasure 90% of the time or they at least are mindful of bills and are careful with their spending habits then I don't think it's too big a deal. I wouldn't even count it if they'd made mistakes in the past they were still cleaning up. As long as they have a decent sense of responsibility ( because that's really what money management is...being grown up enough to put required before pleasure) then it's all good... ok this was a much longer answer than I meant it to be

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Friday, May 16, 2008 2:16 PM

Finances are the major deal, I agree. People have to take responsibility for their actions, and accept consequences. If someone always bails them out, they will just do it again.

Slight digression on the subjetc of money -

Now I'm in a sitch where my husband is supporting me at present, while I try and write. This is fabulous, but I am feeling a little guilty, and am going to look at getting something at least part-time so we have some extra holiday money. Point is, first time in my life where I am reliant on someone else's money, and it's very weird. Previously, I've either been totally self-reliant, or, one horrible time, in a relationship where money = power in partner's eyes, ie 'I earn more, so I make the decisions.'

So, am I being selfish in letting husband look after me? (He insisted, after my last workplace got uber-weird.) Maybe some part of me feels like I'm betraying some feminist principle by indulging my inner Nigella half the time, and my inner Christie the rest.

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Friday, May 16, 2008 2:31 PM

I totally agree that the poor money management thing is a lack of responsibility. The girl needs to grow up at some point. Bah!

SpaceAnJL, I don't see that as a problem at all. You two are working together to achieve your goals. That's what it's all about right? I mean the plan is for this to only be temporary right? If you can get a writing career going then you'll be bringing in your own income soon enough. Nothing wrong with needing some time to get the ball rolling.

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Friday, May 16, 2008 3:49 PM

Good morning folks.

Woke up early to the rhone going off. Though it was the alarm but it was actually a loan company calling early (we've traded messages for weeks now) saying they've chopped off a few hundred dollars from my account an I can pay them off today. YAY!!!

HUGS for MSB and her wonderful breakfast and being the BEST.

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Friday, May 16, 2008 4:11 PM

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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Woke up early to the rhone going off. Though it was the alarm but it was actually a loan company calling early (we've traded messages for weeks now) saying they've chopped off a few hundred dollars from my account an I can pay them off today. YAY!!!


Congrats! Gotta love that feeling of getting a loan paid off.

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Friday, May 16, 2008 4:17 PM

mornin' Imponderables.

Yeah, being in debt isn't fun.

Happy Friday all. Hugs and chocolate to them that wants 'em.

*snuggles MsB*


~jimi
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Was your mom a flaming sword swallower? We could use somebody to replace Donut.

Is she a mean girl, or a regular girl?
Caboose, what did I tell you?
That there are no regular girls.
Exactly.

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Friday, May 16, 2008 4:50 PM

Morning all... Anjl there is nothing at all wrong with you staying home. I'm betting you're doing all the cooking,cleaning errands, etc and that's a whole lot of work and a major contribution to your family...so don't say you don't work. Plus you're a full time writer on top of all that so I'd say as long as it works for you...it works:)

NV hey it's my fault I thought that was the phone alarm, but it's still good you finally got through and all... and (yes I know this is mushy just try to deal ...giggle) you're the uberbest:)

HUGS Jimi



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Friday, May 16, 2008 7:12 PM

Wow. Busy morning. Actually I'm uniform shopping (need a few items other than what the Colonel offers) and have found nearly everything. Waiting for approval on the boots though. Seems the Battalion suppliers lack the capacity to outfit a 16 wide.

Stupid feet.

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Friday, May 16, 2008 8:15 PM

Hey you have nice feet... nice big feet..... ( yes DTH it's true)

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Saturday, May 17, 2008 3:55 PM

bumpin for the weekend

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Saturday, May 17, 2008 6:41 PM

looks like MSB and NV are takin over the thread, i'll have to put a stop to that :-P

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Saturday, May 17, 2008 7:56 PM

*joins tex's quest to take over the thread for ourselves* ^_^

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Saturday, May 17, 2008 10:01 PM

lol yes, we will be triumphant :-P haha

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Saturday, May 17, 2008 10:44 PM

We could start another thread, and then dominate it ^_^

because I like the way this emoticon looks with my avatar and my sig ^_^

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Saturday, May 17, 2008 11:23 PM

lol. does look quite shiny. like the new avatar ;)

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Sunday, May 18, 2008 12:03 AM

Thankee, Mobbex made it for me ^_^



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Sunday, May 18, 2008 5:45 PM

very perty ^_^ i wish i could make avatars :-\ and sigs. dont have much luck with fancy sigs.

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Sunday, May 18, 2008 5:55 PM

If you want a change, I could do it for you

Just give me pics you want to use, any writing you want, and a general layout of how you want things, and I could do that for you ^_^

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Monday, May 19, 2008 12:50 AM

Nice try little ones....but I'm a great deal more evil than you both...giggle

Ok long weeknd, but a lot accomplished....



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Monday, May 19, 2008 1:12 PM

mornin' Imponderables.


MsB, evilness doesn't matter, if they are the ones doing the posting, then they have taken over the thread. Seems like the rest of us weren't around this weekend.


*snuggles MsB*



~jimi
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Was your mom a flaming sword swallower? We could use somebody to replace Donut.

Is she a mean girl, or a regular girl?
Caboose, what did I tell you?
That there are no regular girls.
Exactly.

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Monday, May 19, 2008 2:00 PM

Well, we could hardly do anything else, seeing as we have no real lives, now could we?

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Monday, May 19, 2008 3:27 PM

Good morning.

No real lives?

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Monday, May 19, 2008 4:12 PM

At least, I don't. Can't really speak for tex....

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Monday, May 19, 2008 8:06 PM

SHEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEILAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
No! Sheila! Sheila!! who's sheila?
She was the nice lady in the tank. *sob* she was my friend.
Dude! i KNEW you could pick up chicks in a tank!

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Monday, May 19, 2008 8:22 PM

LOL

OK I'm not even teaching and I am still feeling the teacher drain... end of the year I just want it to be over...weird ??

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Monday, May 19, 2008 8:29 PM

lol ^_^

MSB, it's not weird to want the whole gorram year to be over with. The imagined drain isn't quite a true drain, it's the anticipation of another hellish day. Trust me, I am always right ^_^



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Monday, May 19, 2008 8:48 PM

im hungry. dad's in the hospital. and its been raining on and off all day. wtf?

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Monday, May 19, 2008 8:52 PM

HUGS FLT I'm sorry sweety..it'll get better though
and do you mind sending that rain my way... it's not rained since I got here

HUGS LF

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Monday, May 19, 2008 9:00 PM

*sends rain MSB's way* there'na go ^_^
*hugs* the only reason my dad's in this position. again. is because he's stubborn, and he never tells ANYONE when he's not feeling good @_@ one would think after having the complications he's had with his surgery he would listen to his body more often -_-

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 2:33 AM

well dad's back home @_@ still doesnt look like he's learned anything about "when you feel sick, tell someone and call a doctor" though -_o

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 3:23 PM

Good morning folks.

Good to hear he's home FLT. All you can do is fuss over him a bit and try getting him comfortable with saying he feels bad. After talking with my Uncle Andrew (he's in his mid 70's) this weekend I know better than to try brushing it off and trying to make myself better. Seems he'd known too many old timers thst did that and didn't make it.

As for this evening I'm making dinner and watching Diary Of The Dead (out on DVD today) after cutting out the fox tails in the backyard. Seems the dogs can't stay out of them and it's time to cut and burn.

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 3:51 PM

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Originally posted by LeopardFlan:
Trust me, I am always right ^_^


You too? I never thought I'd find someone who agrees with everything I say. This should be fun.

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 5:13 PM

howdy Imponderables.

*glomps FLT for the Red vs. Blue reference*

I hope you are all having a good day.

*snuggles MsB*



~jimi
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Was your mom a flaming sword swallower? We could use somebody to replace Donut.

Is she a mean girl, or a regular girl?
Caboose, what did I tell you?
That there are no regular girls.
Exactly.

xBox 360 GamerTag: Swinger420

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 5:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zeek:
Quote:

Originally posted by LeopardFlan:
Trust me, I am always right ^_^


You too? I never thought I'd find someone who agrees with everything I say. This should be fun.



This will be fun. We won't have to depend on communications systems for us to plan how to take over the world, cause we'll already know what's right

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 7:08 PM

NV
( isn't he just the sweetest)
Sadly our two seriously dumb dogs cannot stay out of this huge clump of foxtails so they come back inside with tons of the little burrs which I end up picking out..argh

OK LOL we had a fire drill and I was so involved in work ( alarm is not very loud) I didn't notice until they'd cut the power. I was the last out of the building by a good 3 minutes...ooops

HUGS Jimi

Ok must go get lunch to improve my attentiveness

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 7:26 PM

For the first time today, I called in sick not because I'm too sick to work or because I'm contagious, but because I can't handle the drive today, with my joints in their current state.

I hate everything today. *kicks something and slumps out of the room*

~CK

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Tuesday, May 20, 2008 9:42 PM

:-( Sorry to hear that CK. Hopefully things will turn around soon. At least you can spend some of the time at home soaking up the sun. You've said that seems to help right?

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 12:09 AM

Yes MSB, he sure is ^_^

*fixes gravity drive CK kicked and rushes out of the room after her(?)* *gets her some tea, soup, pillows, and a blanket and orders her onto the couch*

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Originally posted by NVGhostRider: Good to hear he's home FLT. All you can do is fuss over him a bit and try getting him comfortable with saying he feels bad. After talking with my Uncle Andrew (he's in his mid 70's) this weekend I know better than to try brushing it off and trying to make myself better. Seems he'd known too many old timers thst did that and didn't make it.

yeah he seems to be doin better today. try telling HIM not to put things off though @_@ he won't listen to anybody, it's his stubborn way -_@

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*glomps back* sooooo many situations in the college atmosphere that warrant RvB references. and my friends and i take advantage of ALL of them

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 12:45 AM

HUGS Ck hope the joints improve.


ok I have got to get sleep tonight ...my cranky factor is a +10



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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 1:16 AM

uh oh *gives you anti-cranky meds* (its um...hot chocolate ^_^)

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 2:31 PM

mornin' Imponderables.

I wish I had gotten into RvB in college, I have just recently seen all of them. I love the "previously on Red vs. Blue" part from the season 5 DVDs.

*snuggles MsB*


~jimi
Lt. Alexander - Chief Medic / XO Alpha Co. / Logistics & Transportation Specialist - 76th IAB

Was your mom a flaming sword swallower? We could use somebody to replace Donut.

Is she a mean girl, or a regular girl?
Caboose, what did I tell you?
That there are no regular girls.
Exactly.

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 3:36 PM

Ponderers!

*hugs*







That's all I got.

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 4:46 PM

Morning all...

Ah feeling much better with a nice evening, wonderful meal cooked for me by a super sweet and wonderful man NV and a good nights sleep and a great wake up this morning...

HUGS to all

HUGS Jimi...

Ok weird ponder for all... what do you think shows love more 1-the little thoughtful things like noticing when someone's upset or doing something nice and simple for them or 2- the grand romantic gesture like a dozen roses and a big celebration??

Personally I think it's the little things that really show how you feel.


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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 6:14 PM

Little things.


~jimi
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Was your mom a flaming sword swallower? We could use somebody to replace Donut.

Is she a mean girl, or a regular girl?
Caboose, what did I tell you?
That there are no regular girls.
Exactly.

xBox 360 GamerTag: Swinger420

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 6:27 PM

Update: Yup, still hate everything. -_-

On the ponder: I think you need a healthy combo of both. Hubby is really good about doing lots of little things, but every now and then it's nice to get flowers or be surprised by something intricate he's planned. I don't think you should rely on just one or the other, but the little things add up to more in the end, IMO.

~CK

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 8:31 PM

HUGS CK oh sweety... has anything else gone wrong or is it the same stuff??


ah so you are going with laconic Jimi??

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 8:41 PM

I would say both, yeah, but the little things count for much more. If there's a guy that only does big things, forget him, he's just a lazy a**. It's easier to do a big thing and forget about it, than it is to do a bunch of little things.

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Wednesday, May 21, 2008 8:45 PM

Oh, 100th post.

New Thread!

http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=2&t=33725

(Sorry 'bout cuttin' ya off Zeek. You are so right about that)


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