Just a note..

POSTED BY: Stegasaurus
UPDATED: Sunday, July 15, 2007 16:59
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STEGASAURUS

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 1:47 AM

I know I haven't been on these boards long, but you all have been so nice and helpful to me in more ways than anyone here could really know. Where I live, I have no friends, and then only family I have is my wife and daughter. So the internet is my only real release on most things.

With all that being said, I asked my wife for a divorce today. I thought about waiting until after the holidays, but that would just prolong the inevitible. There's no one near me to share this with, so I just thought maybe getting it out here would help me a bit. Sorry if my story is a bit of a downer.

Suffice to say that I have been unhappy for a long, long time. For 8 years I stayed in what was for me a loveless marriage to prevent hurting my daughter and my wife. I have taken full responsibility for my actions, and realize that I will ultimately be labled "the bad guy".

While my wife has accepted my request, and has said she will keep it amicible, she's a file clerk at the largest law firm in Nevada, and I am sure they will take up her case. That being said, I am prepared to be steamrolled financially and emotionally. And I guess I deserve it.

So if you don't hear from me for awhile, now you guys know. Thanks for letting me vent.

-Steg

PENGUIN

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 2:11 AM

*gives Steg a man-hug*

You always have a friendly ear here at FFF.net...

King of the Mythical Land that is Iowa

CYBERSNARK

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 2:26 AM

Yeah. We're all kin here.

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JOSSISAGOD

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 2:28 AM

Jossisagod slides Steg a 'Milk. Drink up and vent my friend!

Fe'nos Tol
JOSSIS(Most Definitely)AGOD

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FLORALBUNNY

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 2:35 AM

Here's a box of berries for you, Steg.
Have a memorable time.
Been there.
If you get really miserable with it, try
PMing FMF....heh.

bun
Frisky Browncoat

PHOENIXROSE

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 2:36 AM

Yiikes! dramadramadramadramadrama I sorry to hear it.
Well, we're here for you. Whenever you need to vent or anything. I've said it before, I'm sure I'll say it many more times: Browncoats are family.

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FOLLOWMAL

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 3:06 AM

Yep, we're here.

And you're on the crew...

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TRAVELER

Wednesday, July 4, 2007 3:08 AM

It is not easy doing the right thing. But most of have had to go through similar situations.

Stay in touch. Don't isolate yourself.
I have seen you post here, so continue to join in and be active.

A fellow Browncoat;
Traveler

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Traveler

STEGASAURUS

Thursday, July 12, 2007 2:16 AM

Bit of an update...

Looks like I found an apartment, will probably move in this weekend if my application clears.

As I had hoped, we are keeping it very civil and there's been no death-threats on my life by her friends thus far.

But...one thing I'm losing out of the deal:

http://webpages.charter.net/shylodog/Sharp%20stuff/Pointies2.JPG

She wanted to keep something for home defense, so I really couldn't say no...but dang.

FOLLOWMAL

Thursday, July 12, 2007 2:18 AM

Wins and losses... ahh I remember them well.

Not much you could say under those circumstances.

Some of the things I lost in my divorce years ago returned home to me later in life though, so you never know....

http://www.martinfirrell.com/supersecretthingy.html

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