FUTUREMRSFILLION'S BLOG
A little Background
Sunday, May 14, 2006 2:43 AM
My last blog was a huge cup of selp-pity, but let me explain why I went "overboard".1987-2000 reasonably happily married or as happy as one can be when married to a man who cheats and is an alcoholic. He would fall off the wagon and things would be crap and then get back on and things would be great.
2000 move back to the UK and start suffering what becomes a 4 times a year pnuemonia cycle that continues to this day
2001 husband has another affair
2002 husband get arrested for Drink driving and loses license in UK - which means I have to drive him to the train and back everyday, take the kids to 2 schools 20 miles apart and pick them up take myself to work and do all of the driving for the next 28 months. Husband goes to rehab and ends affair.
2004 husband puts on medals he is not entitled to and is prosecuted. I have husband committed to psyche ward to keep him from losing retirement. Husband retires and we move back to US, buy house.
2005 Husband starts drinking again and not coming home.
May 2005 I am diagnosed with Severe 3rd stage asthma that we can not control
June 2005 husband announces he wants divorce to "find himself" He still loves me and will "be here for me". He promises certain amount of money and to help finish fixing up house and will do yard work, etc.
June 2005 get diagnosed with Psuedomonas infection in the lungs that has colonized.
July 2005 find out husband has been having an affair for the last year and has moved from my house to hers-find this out only because 16 yr old son sees father out with woman.
Aug 2005 husband tells me he wants to come home.
Sep 2005 takes younest out only once. Drives him to the stop and shop-buys him a coke and on the way home tells him "You can tell your mom that I am going to marry that woman" and drops him off - Great father huh?
Sept 2005 husband reneges on all agreements
Oct 2005 Husband remarries (bigamy) and removes me from Navy medical - prescriptions go from $60 to over $200 a month
Nov judge throws out divorce
Dec husband blames me for judge throwing out divorce, stops payments and hires nasty attorney.
April go to court and the judge gives us no support - says we have to wait for court date.
At this point he is only paying a nominal child support. My mother has been making my house payments and buying my groceries since Dec. We still have not been to court. I have to work 2 jobs, and we still don't have enough. Husband never sees kids. Although he lives 2 doors away. He just bought himself a new Harley and a travel trailer. They have been to bike rallies all over and they have a new truck OH yeah and he borrowed $21,000 from my mom to buy a work truck and he has not paid them back a dime. So I now owe my parents almost $40,000 (which they are not asking for - but it has to be paid back!).
Big pity party for me! Oh well. Life sucks and you just carry on.
I need a sugar daddy!
COMMENTS: 7